When two people get married they agree to share their lives with each other. They promise to love, honor, and comfort each other for better or worse. These are solemn vows that people should take seriously. The only question that the vows do not answer is how much is shared? When a man and a woman have established themselves as adults before getting married they are used to having control over their money. They work hard for what they want and try to pay all of their bills re